A Brilliant
Stress Relief
Technique To Bring You Calm
- by Chris Green
(c) Chris Green - All Rights reserved
http://www.conqueringstress.com
You and I both have a
belief about who and what we are. Indeed, everybody
does. Many different events happen to you throughout your life and
it is how
you assign meanings to these events that forms the belief you have about
yourself. If you view these events negatively, you can form a victim
mindset, a
mindset that will send stress levels soaring and cause you misery
for a long time.
An old friend of mine is a perfect example. Life was going smoothly
for him until
he was forced to change jobs because the company was "streamlining". He
was
assigned to a new job, he really struggled with it, he didn't get
along with his new
boss who eventually moved my friend to another department, on a lower
salary.
Gary changed dramatically. He was no longer a nice guy content with
his life but
a very angry, bitter person who deeply resented what had happened to him.
He
resented everybody, labelling friends as "selfish" and would snap at
people over
the slightest thing. Gradually his presence became unbearable and
his friends,
tired of the bitterness and arguing, deserted him. He had chosen to
be a victim
and he was taking it out on everyone. And the more he acted like a
victim the
more he became one.
Just as Gary believed he was a victim because of a trying event, so
do millions of
others. Being a victim becomes the story of their life after an event such
as a job
loss, death of a loved one, a nasty accident, a move of house, a change of
job or they
split from their partner - whatever. But every single one of us has to
face these
types of events in our lives and what is crucial is not to choose to
allow them to
make you believe you are a victim as this will fuel stress.
Let me share with you an outstanding stress relief technique you can
use so you
never allow a stressful event to make you choose to be its victim.
Imagine that you want a fresh new look in your living room. You want
new
furniture - a new sofa, a new coffee table, a new sideboard, a new carpet
and
a fresh new color scheme.
Before you can proceed you have to do one very important thing:
Clear out all of the old furniture and furnishings. You either sell
them or take
them to the dump. You cannot replace them whilst they are
still in the room you
cannot have your fresh new look unless the old has been
removed, agreed?
It's so obvious isn't it? Yet what is really great about this is
that it makes a super
stress relief technique because you can apply the principle to your life
and the
events you have experienced if such events are causing you to
believe you are a
victim long after they have happened.
No matter what stressful event you have endured, maybe your partner
has left
you, a business venture collapsed, someone you love passed away, you
had a bad
accident or you were made redundant or someone you trusted abused your
trust,
whatever it is, no matter how severe, you now throw it out of your
life. Dump it in
the garbage and completely LET IT GO. It has hung around way too
long, now let it
go so you can bring in fresh opportunities and experiences.
Whatever it is, dump it. Get angry at it, take yourself to a private
place and
picture what has happened and then shout: "ENOUGH! NO MORE! I LET YOU
GO YOU ARE DUMPED FROM MY LIFE. I AM NOT YOUR VICTIM!"
I want you to think of this: Whatever has happened to you in life
you can
have but two effects on you. It can either be a curse or a blessing. If
you
choose to believe an event has made you a victim, then it will be a
curse on
you for a long time.
Choose instead, to make it a blessing, even if you were really hard
done by.
Because when you choose to make it a blessing it will never ever
make you a
victim and rob years from your life, as the change of job robbed
precious years
from my old friend.
Click Here Now to get started right away on
kicking stress, depression and anxiety out of your life forever
without taking antidepressants so you can get your happy life
back!
**Resource Box**
Ex- chronic anxiety sufferer Chris Green is the author of
"Conquering Stress", the
acclaimed
internet best seller
which will help you to naturally conquer stress,
depression and anxiety without taking powerful drugs. For
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